Spring is here, daffs are comming out and lots of other things! Someone in the last few years was a bit of a gardener and the jungle (aka garden) is full of beautiful flowers and shrubs (in many cases I have absolutely NO idea what they are, but am learning!). Took some photos yesterday of some lovely pinks.
Camellia - we have about 10 of these dotted around the garden! Most of them will need a good prune once they have stopped flowering!
We also have an enormous number of fruit shrubs and bushes (more of that another day), but among the more unusual is a very straggly (again will need a prune later in the year) quince! Quince jelly methinks! The flowers are lovely :)
Wonderful colours and inspiration for some glass making :)
Wednesday, 12 March 2014
Tuesday, 11 March 2014
From there to here - house!
When we moved down here 7 or was it 6
years ago (I don't know feels like we have been here for ever!), we
were supposed to rent for 6 months and then buy our own place with a
bit of land for a smallholding. Unfortunately we rather fell in love
with our very old dairy farmhouse with fabulous views and were
convinced that our lovely landlord (and he was brilliant) would
eventually sell it to us so we were rather lackadaisical about house
hunting.
In the early part of last year we had
another 'oh go on sell it to us, you know you want to' conversation
with the landlord and for the first time he gave us a very firm 'NO'!
In the past he just used to say 'maybe, maybe not', but now the
message was clear. So now we really had to go, we had to make a
proper effort and so the house hunting started in earnest. We saw
some great places, big, small, needing work, ready to move into, some
mad ones on Bodmin Moor (one very very very remote and old and very
very cold!), but all had something 'not quite right' about them.
Then this very quirky house came on the market, AGAIN. Being a
'Rightmove and Primelocation' watcher (these are websites where you
can see most houses for sale in an area from all the agents rather
than having to check out each agent one at a time and stops all those
annoying mail shots!) I had seen this house many times over the
previous 6 years. When I first saw it they wanted an enormous amount
of money for it; it was in the wrong area (a lovely area but not
where we wanted to be, especially with my parents living in S Devon);
had little land and no real outbuildings, but it did look very
quirky, had no near neighbours and walking distance to the sea and
always intrigued me. However, as it didn't fit the bill we never
viewed it. Then in April it came on again, at a much lower price and
we were getting desperate, so we made an appointment.
So on a hot April day (day before my
birthday in-fact) we came to see this mad house. Quirky is an
understatement and the garden is a jungle, but it was just 'us'! We
had a second view, made a stupid offer (it had come down in price
ALOT since I had first seen it 5 years before, and infact had changed
hands once in that period) and got a prompt and very firm NO from the
estate agent, so we waited and made other viewings for other houses.
3 weeks later a phone call, 'it's yours
if you still want it'!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was nearly
sick, excitement and OMG! In July we moved in on a hot hot hot day
(with my poor confused father phoning me to tell me that his flat had
burned down and he had lost everything; he was in hospital by now and
of course his flat hadn't burned down at all – poor chap!).
So we have bought a crazy house, miles
from anywhere (except a lovely pub) with no neighbours, well water
and only mains electricity which needs lots of work and comes with 3
acres of jungle (think there might be some garden under it all,
including an acre of ancient woodland, ¾ acre of field and a veggie
plot). In the 8 months since we have moved in we have done quite a
bit, but it is one of those projects where trying to prioritise work
is almost impossible and we want everything to happen NOW, but we are
learning to be patient (just about).
Oh and the plan was to be closer to
Bude just over the border in Cornwall as I spend about 3 or 4 days a
week there in summer working, we aren't really that much closer but
the commute is something else, with views of the sea all the way and
going to work views of Dartmoor and Bodmin, beats the M25 I can tell
you!
In my next post be prepared for scary,
'OMG the house is falling down' moments as I tell the tale of
restoration!
Monday, 10 March 2014
From there to here - family
Ok, I have been thinking and decided to do a couple of catch up
posts. As my last post in 2011 talked about my Mum it seems to make
sense to do a quick update on that side of things and then talk about
our new 'project'!
I should just say in my defence of letting this blog lapse that I did start up another one about my glass making, but recently thought that this blog here could suit two purposes, one to talk about life in deepest darkest Devon and the other to talk about my glass work, so that's why I am back (hooray I hear you cry - I hope!).
Well on the family front my (now) 93 year old father was coping very well on his own thank you very much, still driving, getting the paper, doing some light shopping - I did a fornightly (that's every two weeks by the way) supermarket shop until last June when he suddenly went off and we had no idea why (later on it was decided that he had had a small stroke which didn't affect his mobility (as such), but caused him to become very confused and unable to look after himself. I spent weeks doing a 3 hour round trip several times a week to visit him in the little community hospital where we managed to get him a bed (a fine little hospital it was too).
We (including him when he was able) decided that the best thing to do was for him to go into a home (not an easy decision I can tell you and as those of you who have had to deal with this will know) but the most practical; to be honest I suspect that was what he had wanted for a bit and he had raised it but I had always refused to accept the idea. Long and the short of it was that whilst in the throws of moving house and in the middle of a heat wave, I was also trying to find Dad the best I could in a care home (and I can tell you that I have seen a few in my time as an NVQ assessor for care staff!). I did find him one about 20 minutes away and moved him up here (no help from our lovely ambulance service I have to say which resulted in a rather nasty experience in a public loo, least said about it the better really) at the end of July. Now he has the lovely staff at his beck and call with a view over a lake full of ducks and geese and swans to watch, good food and a comfortable bed and me visiting twice a week and other family members when they can. Once the weather gets better we will get him out and about for some trips (I am so impressed with the home that I have reserved my room already ;) ).
I know there will be people out there who have been through this and much worse (at least Dad, now, it completely back to normal now mentally and has a wicked sense of humour). It is so hard to put a parent (parents) into care, feels like a bit of a failure (but there was no way we could have looked after him here). Also so hard to think of that vibrant, highly intelligent, wonderful man reduced to an old man sitting in a chair in one room. I just have to remember that he is getting the best care and he is happy (and safe) and that's the most important thing.
I should just say in my defence of letting this blog lapse that I did start up another one about my glass making, but recently thought that this blog here could suit two purposes, one to talk about life in deepest darkest Devon and the other to talk about my glass work, so that's why I am back (hooray I hear you cry - I hope!).
Well on the family front my (now) 93 year old father was coping very well on his own thank you very much, still driving, getting the paper, doing some light shopping - I did a fornightly (that's every two weeks by the way) supermarket shop until last June when he suddenly went off and we had no idea why (later on it was decided that he had had a small stroke which didn't affect his mobility (as such), but caused him to become very confused and unable to look after himself. I spent weeks doing a 3 hour round trip several times a week to visit him in the little community hospital where we managed to get him a bed (a fine little hospital it was too).
We (including him when he was able) decided that the best thing to do was for him to go into a home (not an easy decision I can tell you and as those of you who have had to deal with this will know) but the most practical; to be honest I suspect that was what he had wanted for a bit and he had raised it but I had always refused to accept the idea. Long and the short of it was that whilst in the throws of moving house and in the middle of a heat wave, I was also trying to find Dad the best I could in a care home (and I can tell you that I have seen a few in my time as an NVQ assessor for care staff!). I did find him one about 20 minutes away and moved him up here (no help from our lovely ambulance service I have to say which resulted in a rather nasty experience in a public loo, least said about it the better really) at the end of July. Now he has the lovely staff at his beck and call with a view over a lake full of ducks and geese and swans to watch, good food and a comfortable bed and me visiting twice a week and other family members when they can. Once the weather gets better we will get him out and about for some trips (I am so impressed with the home that I have reserved my room already ;) ).
I know there will be people out there who have been through this and much worse (at least Dad, now, it completely back to normal now mentally and has a wicked sense of humour). It is so hard to put a parent (parents) into care, feels like a bit of a failure (but there was no way we could have looked after him here). Also so hard to think of that vibrant, highly intelligent, wonderful man reduced to an old man sitting in a chair in one room. I just have to remember that he is getting the best care and he is happy (and safe) and that's the most important thing.
Monday, 3 March 2014
Still thinking!
Still thinking about post subjects to get this off the ground, but in the meantime thought I would share some photos of what I do for work these days! Can you guess what this is?
Wednesday, 26 February 2014
OOps!
Last post 2011!!!!!! Thinking of restarting this up again in the near future as finally after 6, or is it 7; difficult to keep track of time down here; years since we moved down from up country (up country here means anywhere that isn't the South West (ie Devon and Cornwall) even if you are south of us, ie say Southampton!), we have finally bought our own house. Lots to tell, lots of fun and games, overflowing septic tanks, blue tap water and holes in walls, so rather than start a new blog up, think I might get this one going again, but am going to have some thinking time on what to put in here. Alot has been going on in the last 2 and a half years! Back soon :)
Monday, 5 September 2011
Been a bit busy
Been rather a busy few months and I am afraid one thing that got seriously neglected but back now! :)
College work was manic in the last few months of the school year, out teaching nearly every day of the week (not quite Saturdays and Sundays) and then I have also been concentrating on my glass beads. Talk about serendipity... I popped into my local bead shop one day looking for a finding and the lovely lady who runs the shop asked me if she could sell my beads (she hadn't even seen them!). I went in again about a week later with a selection of beads I had been working on and she put in an order for over 100, so with that and college work didn't have room to breathe! Next another friend started up a weekly craft and antique market so I have been doing that almost every week since the beginning of July; great fun, not making a mint but enjoying it and covering the pitch costs so it's not too bad. Finally on the bead front, I have opened an Etsy shop (need to put more items in there) and also my website it up, so what with these and a FB page for Glass Beads by Lotti and a Twitter link to that my beads are slowly slowly getting promoted.
On other notes our diabetic cat is still with us (just) but I think the time will be here very soon when we will need to really seriously think about allowing him to go to the great mouse hunting land in the sky. It will be very sad, but he has been well looked after and used to have great fun in the fields here so we know he has had a good life.
Re the fields, sadly this year we have not had our boys and I have missed them very much; on the plus side though we have had alot more deer in the fields and it has been lovely to watch the young ones play.
The final thing that has happened and that has taken up alot of this year is that my poor little Mummy who has been unwell for years with terribly arthritis to the point that you could hear her bones creak as she moved and who was in so much pain that she was in tears every morning finally went to join my sister about a month ago after 2 and a half weeks in hospital under heavy sedation. Those two weeks were terrible and her passing has been sad, but we gave her a great send off (arranged by Dad and one of my nephews and his wife) and now she is at peace and no longer in pain. Dad seems to have had a new lease of life too (misses her very very much) and has regained confidence in driving again and has started to go back to church again, which they both loved but Mum just couldn't do. We have to find him somewhere new to live as he (understandably) doesn't want to stay where he is (too many memories), but hopefully he will go on for a few more years yet..
Wednesday, 20 April 2011
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